Showing posts with label the new misogyny. Show all posts
Showing posts with label the new misogyny. Show all posts

Friday, June 17, 2022

The "Be Your Authentic Self" Lie

 


The "being your authentic self" gambit has been used by the beauty industry, the diet industry, and the plastic surgery industry forever. Consider the idea that if I were to lose weight, get asteroid-sized silicone breast implants, dye away my gray hair, remove all my body hair, and wear a crap-ton of makeup to hide my complexion flaws while covering my naturally scanty eyelashes with long false eyelashes, I would magically become my true self. It's bullshit. I'd just be a smoother, thinner version of me with fake boobs, dyed hair, apparently flawless skin, and long, fake eyelashes. I'd still have the same problems I have now, but I'd have to spend a lot more time maintaining a ridiculous illusion of youth while forcing myself to conform to a rigid set of beauty standards. Been there, done that. No, it didn't make me happy. It was an insidious lie.

The gender cult version of this lie is even worse because it pushes people with gender dysphoria to rush into extreme, irreversible, harmful measures to ease their distress with themselves. One can stop dyeing their hair and wearing excessive makeup, stop removing all their body hair, stop engaging in rigid, punitive dieting routines, and have breast implants removed. It is impossible to reconstruct functioning reproductive organs that have been removed, cross-sex hormones cause lasting and sometimes permanent alterations to the body, and puberty blockers are not the benign, reversible drugs that the pro-affirmation gender disciples want people to believe they are.

~Sly Has Spoken~

Stock image by Julia Henze
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Thursday, May 26, 2022

Right-Wing Men Wanting to "Know Where the Feminists Are"

 

The following is a response to Meghan Murphy's post. 

https://www.feministcurrent.com/2022/05/24/where-are-all-the-feminists-were-right-here-being-erased-by-you/

Where am I? Disabled, live in a remote rural area. Suspended from Twitter last week for saying that TIFs are not notorious for trying to push their way into men's safe spaces while TIMs are constantly pushing their way into women's safe spaces.  

I don't know that I want to go back to Twitter even if the suspension is lifted.

I don't hate transsexuals. I never did. I hate this bullshit movement that's really nothing but the same old misogyny covered in glitter and reframed as progressive. 

I'm on Spinster but have spent a shocking amount of time and energy blocking stupid incels who have hijacked the platform to try and own women with the same tired old MRA "talking" points: Stacy, Chad, the "cock carousel," and no fat chicks hurr hurr hurr. Twitter is a bastion of mostly left-wing woman-hating wokesters while Spinster is polluted by creepy-ass right-wing incels. 

I try to keep fighting because it's so important that what rights women have managed to win not be taken from us, but I feel utterly alone most of the time. Social media has proven bad for my mental health and I've taken a step back from it. It's all very discouraging.

I'm nearly 60 years old and the work that women have done to be recognized as equals in society are being eroded by the New Misogyny at an alarming rate. In some ways, things are worse for women than ever. Attacking us is now framed as "progressive," whereas any attempts on our parts to decry our silencing and erasure are framed as "hate speech" resulting in social ostracization, loss of livelihood, and even threats to our safety.

~Sly Has Spoken~

Stock image by Julia Henze 
Purchased from 123rf.com