Monday, May 30, 2022

Dumb Identities: Demi

 

 the-asynjurs-rad-intern

Why do we only see demi-girls and demi-boys and never demi-women or demi-men…

 auntiewanda

Because the gender trend is Peter Pan Syndrome in action.


Ain't that the damn truth? 


"Demi" is such an unnecessary concept. I never thought my dislike of casual sex and hookup culture was a kind of sexual orientation, for fuck's sake. Spoilers: it isn't. 


Demi is one of those dumb identities proposed by Kweer theorists. Not a hypersexual hoochie mama or himbo always on the prowl for your next hook-up? You're not simply selective or anything so boring as that. You're Kweer!


I'm not "kweer." I'm not demi-anything. I'm a heterosexual female who dislikes hookup culture. If I'm going to be sexually involved with someone, it needs to be someone that I have a strong bond of trust with. At this point in my life, that's nobody on the planet.


Not being interested in sex these days doesn't make me Kweer either. 


I'm still simply Super straight, and I'm good with that. 


It's fine to be Super-Gay or Super-Bi too. 


If you want to call yourself "demi" something, you do you. Whatever gets you through your life. I find terms like "demi" meaningless and unnecessary.


~Sly Has Spoken~


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